AITAH?Įdit: I’ve talked with him about his lack of enthusiasm about anything. He said it was normal to joke about this. He was very upset that I called off the wedding and said he was just joking. We haven’t sent out RSVPs or booked too many vendors yet so I want to call it off before it becomes an even more expensive mistake. I talked to my fiancé and said that I’m going to call off the wedding plans and we could re-evaluate if he really wants to get married or even stay in this relationship. He wasn’t interested in getting married and I don’t want to marry someone who doesn’t enthusiastically want to get married. I decided we should call off the wedding for now. I felt really upset that he didn’t acknowledge my hard work in planning the wedding and because he joked that I was trapping him into marriage and that I pushed him into getting married. He said he was trying to enjoy his last days of freedom before I trapped him in the marriage. My fiancé joked that he didn’t lock me down, I locked him up. I was telling them some of my plans to cut costs down and my friend made a joke that it was a good thing my fiance locked me down because I’m a professional. My fiancé and our friends were talking about the wedding. His default response is “whatever you want.” So, I’ve had full creative freedom but I am a little sad he didn’t contribute to anything, even the color scheme. My fiance has ADHD and finds planning very boring. I work in the events industry and this sort of thing is my passion. It was a beautiful intimate proposal and I loved the idea of telling our future kids about his proposal.
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